Issues involving children can be difficult emotionally and legally. Consulting with an attorney early in a custody dispute can help you better understand your rights. People sometimes try to navigate custody issues without an attorney, but that can lead to issues both now and later. An attorney can help you think through some issues that can arise, prepare you for how to handle if/when issues arise, and obtain an order that protects your rights. One of the most dangerous options is trusting that you and the other parent can handle things outside of court, and if you choose not to go through the court you should definitely consult with an attorney first to understand some of the risks.
When you come to your consultation, be sure to have the names of all parties involved including the names of the parents listed on the birth certificate, any current caretakers, and/or anyone who has had the child in their care in the last 90 days. Be sure to have any court case information including any prior custody, child support, divorce, and/or protective order cases involving the child or parents of the child. If available, have any important dates and periods that you last cared for and/or visited the child. If you have a visitation journal and documentation of any child support payments, those are also important to have for the consultation. In cases where CPS or other entities are involved, be sure to have information about when and why they became involved, any contact people from the entity, and the status or outcome of the case.